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HAPPY VALENTINE’S WEEKEND

11 Wednesday Feb 2015

Posted by graynoted in adult category, Grown ups

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couples, invites, menage a trois, retreat, sex drive, snow capped mountain, Valentine's Day, weekend

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I’m fortunate to have 3 invites for Valentine’s Weekend. All 3 invites for 3 days. From snow capped mountains to sunny beach in a tropical setting. Who knew, being a lone wolf would have so many benefits. It wasn’t an easy decision to go it alone. And it was even more difficult to decide which invitation to accept. But as I weighted my options, my thoughts fell upon the woman who has no invite, has had no promise of intimacy for months, even years.

Some women have put themselves on the shelf. They’re meticulous about everything, from where he works, how he walks, what he says…the list is endless. Having this gruesome thought of oblivion, I decided to seek answers to the question of why and how does this happen?

Men seem to have an easier time of getting a lay, having sex, getting a blow job, even without paying for it. It seems there is small segments of society (women) that are okay with casual sex, who don’t worry about how much he’s worth, how he walks…These women have a sex drive. Ah-Ha!!!  Therein lays the key to the why and how a woman can end up without sexual intimacy for months into years. The lack of drive and even denial of wanting it, feeling a need for it becomes a burden of chains. I spoke to one woman who says; “…just don’t think about sex anymore. I look at as something that other people do. It’s been sometime now and I figure it’s not for me anymore”

 

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Not for you? Sex, engaging in sexual satisfaction is no different than eating, drinking water. The body needs food to sustain itself and water to hydrate. Otherwise we die. And without satisfying our sexual need a part of our soul dies. I’ve said this before; A virgin has no idea of they’re missing…but open that door, break that virginity and they’re going to want to have sex from then until the end.  Sex is not just about pro-creation, it’s a release of pheromones that make us feel better, relaxes us and it feels good to orgasm.  I don’t know a soul who’s had an orgasm that didn’t like how it made them feel. Masturbation is great! But there’s nothing like relinquishing control and enjoying the touch of another for a good ol’ orgasm.

So for all you ladies, who’ve given up on sexual satisfaction, get your ass back in the saddle. It’s that simple, like riding a bike. It’s Valentine’s Weekend you’ve got 3 whole days to find a friend FWB, bottle of courage, a sexy movie and engage your sex drive. You’ll be glad you did.

As for my invites, I chose the couple and snow capped mountain retreat. I’ll be her present…his present…and I’ll get to engage my sex drive.

Engage your sexual drive this weekend; find an old friend, a new friend. It’s hearts weekend…enjoy it.

Happy Valentine’s Weekend            couple with hearts

Live and Let Live

06 Friday Feb 2015

Posted by graynoted in adult category, Grown ups, people

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abuse, FiftyShadesofGrey, holier than thou, movies, opininated bs, submissive

WTF!
Here we go! Self centered, self absorbed Americans passing judgement on something they are absolutely clueless about. If I sound irate, I am.

These are people that think if you’re on all fours and enjoy intercourse, use a butt plug, perform fellatio, you are deeply perverted. The only way…sorry the correct way to enjoy an orgasm is to lie on your back and spread your legs. WTF!!! No doubt, that too, is a submissive posture. He’s on top, in control and will probably cum first. Geeez! Get a gripe maidens.

How about try it, before you diss it?

There is a group of, probably horny-haven’t had a decent lay since-forever, bitches. They are urging that people need to boycott the movie Fifty Shades of Grey and donate your ticket money to a woman’s abuse charity. The movie, according to these obsessed possessed, holier than thou angels, is promoting violence against women.

Read the book! There’s no abuse. There are, consenting adults who partake in a form of sexual pleasure that has been around since the Romans. Hello, holier than thou bitches, men are also portrayed as submissive in the book. More to the point, there’s an entire community of D/S.

How about you refocus, holier than thou…Talk about the undercurrent story about an abused child…a pimp and a crack whore.

I blog, because I can. I blog about sex, about my ability to enjoy pleasing a man and his wife because it’s I do. It’s called free speech. I’m not abused because I get really turned on when I feel a mans cock grow in my mouth-that’s some powerful shit! Or when I bring his wife to the mind blowing brink of her happy place and let him finish it. She’s a happy wife when it’s all said and done. Three consenting satisfied adults.

The great hard nose society needs to live and let live. If Fifty Shades…is not your thing, don’t go to see it. I’m sure Disney has something out for you to enjoy your Valentines Day weekend with your significant other.

I feel better…my hearts weekend is going to be mind boggling.

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1st U.S. Colored Cavalry

Private Lives, Public Records

Erotica By Cordelia

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Shades Of Erotic Poetry

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Erotic Banana

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Erotic Scribes

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

The Erotic Writer

Three writers for the price of one blog

Overcoming Sexual Betrayal

The Asexual Agenda

Furthering upper-level discussions of asexuality

A Sexual Being

Where the lines of fantasy and reality blur…

Sexual Destinies

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Holland Rae, Writer

Romance novelist, traveler, journalist. Lover of female protagonists, spicy food, fast cars, and good books.

becauseimasexybitch

erotic short stories

fashionandlifestyleweb

A Leap of Faith

A walk in the shoes of the barefoot sub.

1st U.S. Colored Cavalry

Private Lives, Public Records

Erotica By Cordelia

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Shades Of Erotic Poetry

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Erotic Banana

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Erotic Scribes

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

The Erotic Writer

Three writers for the price of one blog

Overcoming Sexual Betrayal

The Asexual Agenda

Furthering upper-level discussions of asexuality

A Sexual Being

Where the lines of fantasy and reality blur…

Sexual Destinies

Cry a little, Laugh a lot, Love often ~Addison G.

Holland Rae, Writer

Romance novelist, traveler, journalist. Lover of female protagonists, spicy food, fast cars, and good books.

becauseimasexybitch

erotic short stories

fashionandlifestyleweb

Tangled Love Web

queertheorysite

The Dating Diaries

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