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Falling into Change – Fate

22 Thursday Sep 2016

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It is the first day of fall. Things began to change. Green becomes yellow, orange, gold. Days become shorter. Evenings become cloaked in darkness. The warm begins to chill, unless you’re below the equator-then don’t read this part skip over it, doesn’t apply to you.  And you, the ONE who thinks this is going to be about him. No…no Bugsy, this ain’t about you, so carry your sorrow ass on back to being a putain d’homme.  You will know when it’s your turn…big bold letters I promise <giggling>. 

I’ve mentioned my private parties, the shenanigans, the fun.  I’ve mostly attended these soiree with a friend as a plus one or gone alone. Which by the way drives men wild for some reason. An unattached woman entering a partie de sexe gets them drooling.  Well, I met this guy. Funny thing about how we met. I was stood up by a cad (I know Bugsy, it’s not about you, I’m merely making a point-chill!) decided to go out and have dinner, since I had nothing else to do. I’m sitting at the bar, sipping on a beer that the bartender had put in the ice maker just for me.  This gentleman walks in, he looks forlorn, asks the bartender whatcha got in a bottle, he looks at me and says; “I’ll have what she’s having.”  I tell the bartender to give the other bottle he’d slipped in the ice and put another in for me. This guy looks like he needs it.

We talk about the impending days of predicted rain, wonder if we’re really in for a monsoon, it’s already pouring rain (I love valet parking when the weather is nasty).  And he opens his heart to me. He’s been away, come home to an empty house, the girlfriend has up and left. All she left him was the bed, a set of sheets, his clothes, a coffee maker and a cup.  She left him a voice mail, timed to when she thought his plane would land and him headed home-his house by the way.

Here we sit. The noise level has risen as more patrons enter for that after work respite. He turns to me and asks; “Would you like to get a booth? I’d love to buy you dinner and a bottle of wine, maybe?”                         Why not?! I’ve been stood up at the eleventh hour by a cowardly putain d’homie, who lacked manners and maturity. (Bugsy are you still reading? I’m flattered!)  We are seated by the hostess at the bartenders request, a great booth, somewhat secluded, very little crowd noise.  I order lite, I don’t have much of an appetite, we end up sharing a couple of heavy appetizers, me another  beer and he a top shelf scotch.  To my surprise he doesn’t continue to lament about the missing girlfriend, the contents of his home, he’s truly grateful that his beloved dog was being boarded and not left alone.  Awww!  What a nice guy!

The rain continues, we talk about everything from politics to religion and to my view of Americans who are so hung up on monogamy.  When he tells that he and the missing girlfriend attended a few parties of the swing-swap type and ventured to a club in Atlanta.  At that moment, I think I stopped breathing for at least 20 seconds ,my heart beat increased to a rapid pace, my eyes must have glazed over or something and my cheeks a sweet shade of red. “What?”  He asked. And begins to apologize because he thinks he’s offended me!  (okay y’all stop your laughing-you know me, he doesn’t or he didn’t).  Once I regained my breathe, my rate returned to normal, I took a long sip from my bottle, sat it down, looked up at him, focused my eyes on those greenish gray, long lashed dreamy eyes of his and said; “My membership is still valid, doesn’t expire until January 2017.”                                                                                                                                 I could actually see his pupils move to refocus. He reach out his hand out across the table indicating that I give him mine. I did. He held my hand very tender like, almost endearing, it was kinda strange at first. Then he said, without so much a blink or taking a breathe; “I knew you were special when I entered the bar. You’ve been there? You’ve been there more than once?”  Yes, yes and I added another yes just in case I’d missed a question, because by now, I’m beginning to realize that even though a few hours ago I was mistreated by someone I thought was a gentleman, an earnest person who wouldn’t waste a lady’s time with a bunch of bullshit, who had lied about his age (yes Bugsy you did-you so much as admitted you’d lied about being younger, but I suspect you’re much older than you said-much older-your barge of photos-the periobital puffiness were signs you’re trying to be something you’re not), wasted my time for weeks, it was all for this, this moment of he and I sitting in this booth discovering that we liked the club in Atlanta. That we had a lot in common. And that he, had an invite to a party this weekend to celebrate the change of the season, that he was going to send his regrets even before he’d return home to find the girlfriend gone, his furniture, cooking utensils and all gone.

It took us moment or two gather our senses. We sat in silent for a long time. The waiter came over broke the silence, asked if we’d like another drink. He quickly responded;  “Yes, we’d like a glass of house champagne. We have to toast our meeting, this was fate at it’s finest. We were meant to meet.”                                                                                           I told him all about Bugsy, how we’d met, all the bullshit and the way he’d sloughed it off earlier, this was one of the places I’d suggested that we meet and when I’d thrown in his room, just to see…how he’d jumped right on the number 3 choice.  He listened and I listened.  We  toasted with our champagne flutes, he took out his phone, entered a text and said;                                                                                                                              “We have just excepted the invite this weekend, it won’t interfere with your charity event, we can leave after you’re finished, I’ll drive, but if you’re not comfortable without your car, you can follow me and I’ll book 2 rooms for our stay.  I want us to be FWB for a long time, I’ve waited for you forever and I’m very happy this evening has finally arrived.”

We walked through to the bar and thanked him(bartender) . We waited in the  alcove for the valet to bring our cars. His came first and he refused to leave me standing there. He waited for my car to arrive, walked into the rain held the door and said; “May I text you later, to say good night?”  I agreed by nodding, because I’m not sure if I’m dreaming. The last thing I want to do right now is wake up.  But i wasn’t. We’re getting to know each other and it’s great! The weekend is going to be a good one.  Fate. 

Thanks Bugsy!

Thank you all for reading and your wonderful emails!

XoX                                                                                                                                                                         Addieg             adding.blog@gmail.com

LUST NO MORE!

20 Wednesday Jul 2016

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What happens to a man when he looses all lust?  Historically men are the most sexual of the two. Gay men are known for their lust and ability to “allow” extra-martial affairs, open relationships, one nite out with a fling.  Women, on the other hand, aren’t as pragmatic…most women. There are some who allow, and I use that word loosely, their husbands to engage in sexual intercourse with another woman, while she’s in the room and watching. Very rarely does the woman want to experience the “open” wife swap lifestyle. It’s generally the man who cautiously approaches the subject of this happy, go lucky life.  He’s the one who finds the places, sets it up and coasts her ever so gentle into watching another  woman give him a blow job, or him in foreplay.  This is the behavior we, society, has become accustomed to. We readily accept this. It is not, however, what society wants from a woman!

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Most women are afraid to tell their husbands they’d like to enjoy the swapping lifestyle. They are fearful of being judged, being rejected and scorned by their husbands. Let’s face it, if more women felt free to exhibit their inner sexuality, the rate of divorce would drop and prostitutes would be in less demand. Being sexual, being a woman is a dirty word. Men want their wives to give them blow jobs, have annal sex and in general make them feel manly. Sex makes men feel accomplished, feel like manly men.  They have high sex drives and enjoy feeling their cocks getting hard. A horny man will masturbate, before he goes out for the evening, simply to take the edge off. A woman or wife on the other hand, wouldn’t think of masturbating before she left the house in order to enjoy the upcoming nite’s events a little more and definitely a little longer.  Masturbation in general, for women is infrequent. It’s sex with emotional attachment or nothing at all.

masturbating womanWhereas, if women masturbated more, they are less likely to want emotional attached sex. Women who masturbate freely, at will, with creativity are more prone to have sex, for the sake of having sexual intercourse, as a natural part of being a woman. There are some they masturbate freely with and for their husbands. For the most part, married women who masturbate do so when they are alone and he has no idea that his wife enjoys pleasing herself, regularly.  These women are not what society would call good wives, she’s not saving it for him. Which brings me to the man who has lost his lust.

There are husbands who have not had sex with their wives in years! These men may have physical ailments that don’t allow them to enjoy what men like to do. handicapp sexOften wives of these men are their caregivers and life has just bogged them down with doctor’s visits, medications and the inability to connect on a sexual level. Age, for men, can also be a contributing factor. He’s lost his zest! She’s never had that much interest in being sexual, performed it as a duty and now that he’s comfortable  to snore the night away in his leather loungers, she happy to have the bed to herself for most of the night. But. What happens to the woman who was afraid to tell him she wanted them to add zing to their sex life, adding a nite of swinging, or a visit to a sex club?  She had the missionary sex for 20 years, or more, he’s lost his manly man and has put sex on the back burner. Which as it turns out was a couple of years ago when he had missionary sex with his wife.  She’s still wanting sex! She’s got a secret stash in her panty drawer of dildos that vibrate and maybe even a butt plug, nibble clamps, essential oils…How does she tell her lackluster husband she’s horny for some wild sex? She fantasizes about being fuck by a man while she sucks her husband’s cock?  The kids are gone, empty nesters and all he does is watch Netflix!  She’s surfed the sites and she knows there’s a vast world of sexual fun and no way to get to it, unless she goes it alone.

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Gentlemen, are you taking care of business?  If you’ve lost your lust for sex are you depriving your wife of a life she deserves? There are just as many women on the Ashley Madison site as there are men. And if you’re not able to get is up, cunnilingus is the way to go! Get creative! Put the Netflix on pause, make your own movie, with that horny wife in the next room.

Lust is not lost, it’s there, you have to want it!

Addison

addieg.blog@gmail.com   I love hearing from my reader.

Affirmative Spirit transcends to…

24 Friday Jun 2016

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Affirmative Spirit transcends to everything carnal.

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I began this blog a few years ago because I wanted to bring openness to carnal knowledge. I got away from it, not sure how or why, and found myself entangled in the adult world of online dating and affairs of married men and women. I’ll certain continue to bring those things to light, to talk about married men who are prone to “serial affairs” versus those who seek the comfort of a woman’s body. Forget the reasons. Men are prone to have sex and to have it often. Which is why gay men are more likely to have “open relationships”. And I kinda have to agree. Are we as human beings with all this brain power meant to be with one person?  I have nothing against marriage. I think it’s great for those who crave it, want it, need it. But why is it so imperative that one man dedicate his sexual needs and desires to one woman?  And why is a woman considered a whore, a slut, a low-life bitch if she has a desire to be sexual with more than one man?  To engage with someone other than her matrimonial spouse? It’s even sadder that society frowns upon the husband & wife that engages in swapping!  For pete’s sake, they’re consenting adults, betrothed in wed “lock” if they want to spice up their sex life with swapping, why the hell not? What is wrong with that?  Yet, if he tips out by himself he’s label a cheater!  If she’s licked to carnal bliss by another woman or fucked by another man, she’s labeled!

Some men actually derive sensual pleasure watching their wives being pounded by another man. They also like to watch another woman lick her clitoris, pinch her nipples, kiss her with lots of tongue. These are normal everyday people with mortgages, careers, children and some with grandchildren. It is a turn on for both to watch another man insert his cock into the wife’s pussy, lick her pussy close to orgasm and the husband takes over. Or another man to finger fuck her while she sucks his cock. And in some instances, the wife taking both men, one in the pussy the other in the mouth and some others (women) like to be fucked in the ass while she’s sucking a hard cock.

I have found them to be very stable individuals. Mature individuals who know what they desire and enjoy being sexual.  I for one would rather have sex with a man while his wife watches than have a clandestine affair with a married man who is stealing time for sex.  Some may say that’s thrilling, but I say having a wife watch me make her husband’s cock hard with my blow job skills makes me horny and wet. Granted there are some women who’d rather watch and not engage with another woman-the shy type. Once I get in to stroking his hard cock with my mouth, as he moans with pleasure, she’s likely to finger herself because she’s wet from watching me pump the clear pre cum juice from the tip of his throbbing cock. Some wives have dildos, some will want to sit on his face and watch as I bring him to full orgasm.  In those cases when he cums, she will cum his face and watch him lick me to full orgasm.  And if she’s not shy, it’s a full on threesome, she’s licking me while I suck her husband’s cock or I’m licking her while she sucks…He’s fucking me while she sit’s on my face. Or on occasion, I’m being fucked in the ass while she fingers my pussy and I’m sucking on her tits. Who says being a third wheel is a bad thing??

All normal stuff, that humans enjoy doing for carnal pleasure.

I’m meeting a new couple, I plan to blog about our journey.  I’ll get back to the Ashley Madison sagas when the new couple has filled their carnal cup.

Comments are most welcomed. Questions are always welcomed! You may comment or ask a question here OR you may email me addieg.blog@gmail.com

Signed, with love, Addie

 

EIGHT DEGREES OF SEPARATION through the eyes of AM

07 Thursday Jan 2016

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Weeks of reading countless emails…heartbreaking, hilarious, warm stories of those who have lived through the affair-the affair found on Ashely Madison.

Over the next several weeks I will revel the stories of 8 women and their journey through the looking glass of an extra martial affair. Eight guys all married as they sought sex with a stranger. Eight chapters to capture your imagination, your lust, your disgust and maybe a tear or two of empathy.

These stories will be explicit, candid and brutally honest. The names will be fake, the locations not included.

Join me as I travel through the lives of Karen, Brenda, Lucy, Greta, Maggie, Carol, Teressa and Ella.

HAPPY VALENTINE’S WEEKEND

11 Wednesday Feb 2015

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I’m fortunate to have 3 invites for Valentine’s Weekend. All 3 invites for 3 days. From snow capped mountains to sunny beach in a tropical setting. Who knew, being a lone wolf would have so many benefits. It wasn’t an easy decision to go it alone. And it was even more difficult to decide which invitation to accept. But as I weighted my options, my thoughts fell upon the woman who has no invite, has had no promise of intimacy for months, even years.

Some women have put themselves on the shelf. They’re meticulous about everything, from where he works, how he walks, what he says…the list is endless. Having this gruesome thought of oblivion, I decided to seek answers to the question of why and how does this happen?

Men seem to have an easier time of getting a lay, having sex, getting a blow job, even without paying for it. It seems there is small segments of society (women) that are okay with casual sex, who don’t worry about how much he’s worth, how he walks…These women have a sex drive. Ah-Ha!!!  Therein lays the key to the why and how a woman can end up without sexual intimacy for months into years. The lack of drive and even denial of wanting it, feeling a need for it becomes a burden of chains. I spoke to one woman who says; “…just don’t think about sex anymore. I look at as something that other people do. It’s been sometime now and I figure it’s not for me anymore”

 

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Not for you? Sex, engaging in sexual satisfaction is no different than eating, drinking water. The body needs food to sustain itself and water to hydrate. Otherwise we die. And without satisfying our sexual need a part of our soul dies. I’ve said this before; A virgin has no idea of they’re missing…but open that door, break that virginity and they’re going to want to have sex from then until the end.  Sex is not just about pro-creation, it’s a release of pheromones that make us feel better, relaxes us and it feels good to orgasm.  I don’t know a soul who’s had an orgasm that didn’t like how it made them feel. Masturbation is great! But there’s nothing like relinquishing control and enjoying the touch of another for a good ol’ orgasm.

So for all you ladies, who’ve given up on sexual satisfaction, get your ass back in the saddle. It’s that simple, like riding a bike. It’s Valentine’s Weekend you’ve got 3 whole days to find a friend FWB, bottle of courage, a sexy movie and engage your sex drive. You’ll be glad you did.

As for my invites, I chose the couple and snow capped mountain retreat. I’ll be her present…his present…and I’ll get to engage my sex drive.

Engage your sexual drive this weekend; find an old friend, a new friend. It’s hearts weekend…enjoy it.

Happy Valentine’s Weekend            couple with hearts

Brace yourself: Valentine’s Day is lurking

17 Saturday Jan 2015

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Before you go any further, stop and take a moment. That new guy or gal in your life…the one you met at the holiday party. Ask yourself this: Are we dating? Are we hanging out, just having fun? Are we FWB (friends with benefits)?  Is it serious? Long term? Short term?

These are things you need to figure out NOW!  In three short weeks it will be Valentines Day!  A little fore thought now could save you a lot of grief on February 14, especially this year. This year Valentines Day falls on a Saturday, which means the entire freakin’ weekend will be Valentines Weekend!!!  <cue music; dun-dun-dunnnn>   This will be more than a hearts and flowers Valentines Day. We’re talking Valentines Day on steroids!!!  <cue music again; dun-dun-dunnnn>  

This could mean an entire day of hearts and flowers activities, to include that romantic candle lite dinner. And to biggie size it, a whole weekend. Picking her up from work with that wheelie overnight bag, heading off to some romantic drive to a quaint little place, returning Sunday morning. This could take the relationship to an entirely new level.

Pull out your pad and pen, or your tablet, or whatever you need to figure out the pros and cons of that new person in your life. One day, no biggie, but a weekend is some serious shit.

On a positive note; a 2 night jaunt could be a good thing. Lots of sex! Morning wake up sex, which is my favorite, but that’s just me. There’s nothing like waking up, performing fellatio and after, enjoying a cup of coffee in bed while watching ESPN.

It’s nice to receive, but sometimes it can be rewarding to give…

Ladies I’d think you’d have a little figuring out to do, as well.  Is that new guy in your life someone you could spend a couple of nights with?  And if you haven’t performed fellatio, are you willing to surprise him with a “mind-blowing” (pardon the pun) performance?  I have never met a man who did not like head. Never!  Most guys are happy with the bj, but here’s a question; Swallow? Not to swallow?  To me it depends who the guy is, along with several other things. If I don’t swallow, I’m on that head until just before explosion, for the maximum effect  Men like the element of the unexpected bj, especially when they don’t have to hint at it, ask for it. And doing it unexpectedly in a place they’d never expect it is a “mind-blowing” (pardon the pun) down right toe tingling organism.  But I caution you, ladies, be mindful of where. Because unless you plan to swallow, it could becum a disastrous mess.  So consider that before you make your move to please your Valentine.

And before I tally off…

Gents, consider “sticky fingers” for Valentines Day.  I personally like it at a stop light, a quick in and out before the light turns green and the car behind us honks, or in the elevator, the parking garage…I don’t need to cum just a teaser will do.

Get busy…you’re only three weeks til Valentines Day Weekend!

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Don’t Hate the Player, Blame the Game

31 Wednesday Dec 2014

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new year baby

With so many things boggling around in my head, on the final day of twenty-fourteen, I’ll end with short take. First I want to thank all my followers. I promised a better year but didn’t seem to deliver, according to my “stats”. You all liked a lot of what I did this year, however, twenty-thirteen was a banner year. You loved the subjects, enjoyed the contents. So alas, I’ll try to give you more of that…pardon my raunchieness, don’t hate the player, blame the game.

With onset of 2015 any thoughts to what you’d like to do to make it a better year?  Couples, consider a way to spice up your sex life. If you’re monogamous do something daring together, if you’re of the swinging crowd, find a new friend, sensually pleasure them. Singles, your possibilities are endless. Play the dating game on one of the online hook-up sites, erotic online chats can create a new sense of horniess, masturbation after a good chat makes for a great night sleep. Or if you’re privy to a hanky panky group, go to a key party. Most use hotel keys, most staying on the same floor, which makes for an extra special night.

There’s no need to be horny in 2015. Resolve to masturbate more. Don’t leave your desire for personal pleasure to others…who knows your hot spot better than you do…

Admission is 99% freeing. Admit to yourself something you like, dislike and own up to your admissions. I’ll start us off; I freely admit that I love performing fellatio…feeling that cock grow in my mouth is a turn on and for 2015 I plan to do it more in exotic places, more often. Liberate yourself, don’t let the societal prudes hold you hostage.

Going it alone ain’t all bad, I decided to do this early on during the year. It has proven to be a great decision. I haven’t felt this good in a long time. I’m free to do, to come and go and lay where I desire. I’ve met some new, very interesting people and reconnected with a couple that I was totally wrong about, that I had met a few years ago.  I was worried that Santa wouldn’t drop down my chimney last week, because I had been a little naughty. I was propositioned by a married man at a business function. A little birdy told me he had a wager on having intercourse with me before the conclusion of the convention. I was intrigued by his sureness, but decided he’d lose the bet and go home broken-hearted.   The evening of the “big dinner” we’re all dressed to the nines, I set my plan into action. As luck would have it I’m on the elevator going down, it’s stops two-floor down and in walks Mr. Wager, all swag, confident and  smiling.  I return his smile, while thinking all systems go. Two floors later the door opens and 5 more finely dressed people get on making it a tight fit for the remaining six floors. He’s standing in front of me. I time it just before the bell dings, the door opens , I move closer to him, then brush my breast against his back grouped his ass, then quickly move to the left aound him and exit the elevator. I didn’t look back, I quickly walk over to a group of people I knew and engage in conversation, completely ignoring him. He walks past, trying to get my attention, I turn my head as not to make eye contact. The rest of the evening, dinner, the speeches, the applauses I can see him but I again avoid eye contact. When the band begins to play, I make my way to the exit heading for the lady’s room. I chatted with the lady’s room attendant, waiting for the room to clear-which it didn’t-gave her a nice gratuity to check outside the door for a tall man with a red bow tie…yep he’s there. I walked out and motioned for him to follow me and he did walking quickly trying to catch up with me. I headed to the stairwell, closed the door behind us, positioning myself between him and the door. With one hand on the door knob, I began to rub in crouch until it was no doubt where his penis was…he was firm in an instant. I put the pressure on using his pants and tidy whites to create just the right friction…he went for my dress…I opened my legs and he found my pantyless lips full and moist. He moaned when he stuck his finger between lips. I moved my hand faster as he tried to find a rhythm with his finger, but I kept moving away from me…he moaned again and whispered let me in, I moved closer and he slipped two fingers between my lips which were now very wet…he was harder than ever, I sensed he was close. I bent over making him think I was going to unzip and put my lips on his cock, but instead I applied a little more pressure, increasing the friction and felt warm fluid beneath his suit pants and tidy whites. As he moaned in ecstasy I opened the door and walk away.  I went straight to my room, asked the operator to do not disturb, departing the next morning for home. I heard through the grapevine he paid the bet…because he didn’t want the guys to know he’d come in his pants. Had he not made the bet, he could have had a hell of a blow job.

Happy New Year!! Eat Drink and have great sex.

YOLO…go for it

11 Thursday Dec 2014

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Having been approached by an old “friend”, I’m considering taking him up on an offer to travel to hotlanta with him where we’ll meet a new friend of his for some holiday cheering in the city. This is a difficult offer to refuse. I’ve spent many pre holiday evenings in Atlanta, when the city it full of lights, laughter and unspeakable cheer. As unusual as the invite may seem, it is nothing new for me. Other than the pwarm city of Tampa, Atlanta is known for its bars, regular and titi bars. Both regular and upscale. And they’re also known for their “clubs” of the adult nature. The upscale clubs are the best, expensive for men but the best none the less. One in particular has its own indoor swimming pool, 4 bar areas to accommodate all types of shenanigans, the front area looks like a regular night club, with dj, a long bar, waitresses and a dance floor. The only differences are the porno flicks on the various screens and you must BYOB.  There’s ample security with a strict dress code, men pay a handsome price to enter dateless. The entrance has a canopy with valet service, lockers for changing, showers for after and several rooms clustered for privacy with larger open rooms grouped by couples only, singles and the ladies only.

I’ve enjoyed the place during different seasons, I have to admit, holiday season has the best vibe. Including my trek of six hundred plus miles, there are people from as far away as the west coast. My last 2 visit I went alone and promised myself that I would never again shackle myself entering with a man. Sure the car service was expensive, but it was well worth the cost leaving at 3 am after enjoying a bottle of my favorite wine. Now I’m being invited to share this fun place with someone I’ve been there with as a couple, a few years ago, on more than one occasion. The third-party is intriguing and temps me to say yes to the 3 day jaunt as a threesome. But over the past several months I’ve become a lone wolf, so to speak, and I am enjoying my new found freedom. I have to admit he and maybe she may cramp my style. Not knowing her, it’s a tough call. So I may consider saying yes with a caveat or two…I’ll stay at my favorite hotel in Buckhead, use my favorite car service and meet them for dinner and a fun night at my favorite “club”.  That’s fair. He’ll have his cake (his new friend) and he can eat it, too (me), he does that very well. It will be fun heading over to my favorite Buckhead mall to shop for a slinky something in fiery red to match my santa hat and strappy silver heels with the red bottoms.

So, I think I’ll say yes to the invite on my terms and look forward to a night of festive fun.   Naked bodies, voyeurs being a voyeur, couples, threesome, foursome and I do enjoy performing fellatio on him-she can watch…is too much to pass up. An in-depth report to cum.  YOLO!

Trolling adult internet sites…you’ve been warned

26 Tuesday Aug 2014

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Here’s fair warning. If you’re trolling adult websites, I’m on a couple…okay a few. I’m just being my ol’ self by being up front, open and honest.

Why?

Well, I’m doing it for a couple of personal reasons, mainly I’m curious. I’ve been to adult clubs, adult parties, key parties, weekend parties…but never have I trolled the internet websites were guys vie for your attention for chat, meet & greets and eventually a romp in the sack.

I’m not lonely, I’m actually taking a break from “being involved” coupled with plans or weekend activities with him and friends. So, it felt like a natural progression to put it out there and see what comes back…one site very sophisticated. I was pleasantly surprised by their format and how protected you are. Of course the guys still card blanc their phone numbers and email addresses right off the bat. The photos are “wow” I’m really not ready to see that!!! Some expect instant results and why not! You’re a female posting on an online adult site and the ultimate objective is sex. Then there’s the guy who takes the road less travel with the “let’s get to know each other and hope for a genuine connection…” Okay, it’s sweet and all that, but I gotta ask myself, how many times has he written that spill? It’s probably on a note program and all he has to do is cut and paste…allowing him to initiate contact to several.

A few servicemen. They’re tempting!!! They’re tied to a rigorous schedule, out to sea or out of the country. But they are serving our country and no sense playing mind games…as tempting as it is, they are off limits. Then there are the cops…yeah, my apparent weakness based on my past performance. I do have to wonder if they’re really cops. Those I may probe for authenticity.

So, there you have it!! Stay off the adult sites, I’m trolling and taking no mercy. Not sure how long I’ll indulge myself…there’s a big party coming up in ___ weeks, that may divert my attention.

Next week is my blogging anniversary…I’m committed to blog more often-yes have said that before…but I’m going to do better. They may be shorter, but there’ll be something.

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